Growing up

I'm going to talk about growing up. I just turned 21 last thursday. Every since I was a little girl I always wanted to be older so I could do anything I wanted and my parents would stop treating me like I was too little to understand or make my own decisions. It turns out that parents will always see you like a little girl or boy and they will always want to make the decisions for you. But, as you get older you also have to face new challenges and sometimes I wish I could go back and wait for my parents to decide when I'm confused. And what's really wrong is that when you have always had someone to decide for you, you have trouble trusting you will make the right decisions. So, if some day a have kids I will always encourage them to make their own decisions even when they are wrong, because that will make them stronger and independent.